Monday, October 03, 2005

I don't know what had gotten into me. I surfed a few websites about long distance relationship, reading up past successful experiences and tips to maintain one.

Well, in fact just base on own common sense, one should know that the most important factor is Communication.
Without communication with your loved one, especially when he's miles away from you, what could be further than that? We are no psychics that can read each other's mind. I was thinking at times, why should I be doing something else while I'm chatting with my boyfriend? Sacrificing that bit of my time just to let him have my attention is so important! Same applies to me when I very much wanted to tell him what had happened today, or even just a simple "I miss you alot and I love you".

Trust and Respect. Insecurity is the last thing that I want to display in front of him. I don't wana start wondering where should he be instead of going somewhere or who is he going out with. Full stop.

Last but not least is Honesty. I'm glad that he talks about our relationship once a while, telling me how he feels. I also wanted to improve our relationship, but as a man of few words, my mind goes blank whenever I think of such stuff.

I know it's not easy to maintain one. Yet I had chosen to start it, not because I want to prove idiots wrong, not because that I want to try once and definately not because out of pity. Yeah.. Like my friend Roger said, "Love is blind." I had blinded myself willingly for I was shot with love arrows by the Cupid Angel. Hahaha~~ =P

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