While I am on the phone with my friend now, I'm actually inspired to keep this entry in my blog. Let's call this friend of mine, R.
R has been dating (known to many as "attached") with this guy for almost 10 months, and due to a incident made R unable to trust his boyfriend. They have been having arguements for 5 months, because of one incident including other side issues which they can't seem to resolve forever. And so I asked him, "If he is ever going to be your lifetime partner, for how long are you planning to take to forgive him? Or are you not going to forgive him at all?" Vaguely I heard a "I don't know" from him. Well, I'm sure I'm not the right person to tell him either Forgive or Forego.
Along the way, R commented that I'm the sort who forgives. I told him that I naturally forget when I can't forgive which I don't know why. That's me. So at the end of the day when people around me start to have problems trusting their partners, do they Live with it or Leave away from it?
By the time I hung up the phone after the conversation for an hour, I know for sure that even though R may feel abit better talking it out, but the problem still exists and it will not be gone in near future if nothing has been done. At least, all I can do for now is to hear his woes about his relationship.
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3 comments:
hmm.... don't quite understand your statement... 'you naturally forget when you can't forgive'...how does that work? thought it's you forget, that's why you forgive? hahaha...
phil: it means the same actually, just that im stressing the point that i naturally will forget the issue or incident after some time even though i may not forgive somebody.
so there may be a point of time when i remember im not forgiving somebody but for whatever reasons, i cant remember. haha~
waaa...pretty chim logic, pal!!!
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